I was at Jusco Bukit Raja last week. It had been more than a month since I stepped foot there. I wasn’t prepared for the feeling of melancholy and sadness that engulfed me. I used to go there regularly: sometimes once a week, sometimes every other day. It was a pit stop for me while waiting for the kids. The Jusco food court was also my ‘work place’ – I’d bring my notebook and park myself on one of the chairs that face the expanse of glass windows so I can look out at the luscious leaves waving from outside while I write or wait for the muse. My favourite haunts were (still are) Popular and MPH where I’d check out the Malaysiana shelves without fail, and occasionally bug the sales assistants about giving my books a prominent display.
My days of wandering around Jusco are gone. No more freedom to go where I want when I want. I miss the good old days, the kids do too. Now it’s all about this new venture which has its own teething problems. As I reflect on the not-so-good things-which-aren’t-s0-terrible-either which have happened of late, I think to myself, how should I view these?
Potholes? They only make the ride bumpy and shake up the suspension. Not good for the driver and the vehicle. What you get is a feeling of relief after you’ve negotiated the potholes.
Roadblocks? A complete waste of time unless it’s meant for nabbing someone like Osama.
Hurdles? You jump over them; some fall, some remain standing. And they are good for strengthening the legs.
Hurdles it shall be.
Having said that, there are so many blessings to be thankful for too. I’ve got friends/partners who are helpful. The family help out when they can. The centre has been beautifully renovated. There’s no way to go but up.

Hi Lydia,
Thought of leaving you a comment after disappearing for so long…
Didn’t know now you’ve a “new life”! Yes, sometimes in life, we just have to sacrifice something. Nevertheless, I wish you all the best in this new adventure!
Take care!:)
By: Kok on November 13, 2009
at 2:38 pm
Hi stranger, long time no hear. Thanks for dropping by. Sorry I couldn’t meet up with you and the others a couple of months back. If you come to Klang, do let me know. Will take you for bah-kut-teh.
By: Lydia Teh on November 14, 2009
at 6:51 pm
Hi Lydia,
It’s ok. Definitely will let you know if I go to Klang. Thanks!:)
By: Kok on November 15, 2009
at 10:40 am
This post reminds me of the period when I just started work, after university. It was a hard period. I miss hanging out with my friends. I miss going to the malls.
Two years on, I am getting used to working life and I try to re-live my uni moments by hanging out with my friends and just laugh and talk…just like the good old days…
All the best to you in your new venture. If only I am married with kids… I will definitely send my kids to ur centre
I like ur closing sentence….
By: Syafique on November 19, 2009
at 10:20 am
Hi Syafique, thanks for sharing your experience. I won’t speak so soon if I were you
Even if you’re married with kids, there’s the distance to consider, haha. But thanks for the vote of confidence.
By: Lydia Teh on November 20, 2009
at 8:57 am
Congratulations on your new business venture, Lydia. I do wish you all the best and every success.
I look forward to your forthcoming book … “How to run a successful business, be a great mum and a best selling author!”
By: tunkuhalim on November 21, 2009
at 2:29 pm
Hi Aunty Lydia.. just dropping by to say hi~ hope you’re doing well with your new busy life!
By: Elaine on November 22, 2009
at 6:39 pm
Hi Tunku Halim, thanks for your well wishes. Not sure if I’m qualified to write such a book, haha.
Hi Elaine, I’m learning the ropes and getting iinto the groove of things. Thanks for popping by – missed your comments.
By: lydiateh on November 22, 2009
at 7:59 pm